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October 30, 2017

Interview with Dr Virginia Beckett

Hear information and advice from a leading Fertility Consultant
March 30, 2017

Advice to help your friend who is going through IVF

The most important thing you can do for her is to be there for her, allow her to talk when she wants to and be sensitive to how she is feeling.
March 16, 2017

Coping after a failed transfer

Coping after a failed transfer is like grieving for a loss. A loss of hope, a loss of a precious embryo and the loss of future life that you had planned out in your mind.
March 2, 2017

Infertility – the heartbreak of waiting

When I was going through treatment I found all the waiting was unbearable.
November 1, 2016

Feeling like a failure

One of the things I really struggled with when trying to conceive was feeling like a failure – I’ve always tried so hard to do my best at things and achieve what I set out to do, but however hard I tried, I couldn’t get pregnant.
November 1, 2016

Coping with other people telling you they are pregnant

Those of us that are/have struggled to conceive will know that one of the hardest things to cope with when trying to conceive is other people sharing their happy news that they are expecting.
November 1, 2016

Coping with going through fertility treatment

I found it hard at first going to the assisted conception unit. You don’t hear much about IVF and in a way it felt a bit like admitting failure (which it absolutely isn’t).
October 28, 2016


Fertility struggles can put enormous pressure on a relationship and it is a huge thing to go through as a couple. It is really important to support each other and talk through decisions and how you are feeling.
January 31, 2019

Why the HFEA Guiding principles are so important in understanding emotional support for patients

This article covers the nine guiding principles and my thoughts on why they are important and my advice on implementing more emotional support.
October 29, 2018

The importance of self care

One of the things that gets forgotten when trying to conceive is to take care of ourselves emotionally.
May 30, 2018

Daily Happiness Plan

This workbook is designed to help you focus on the things that make you smile and help you plan something that makes you happy every day.
May 23, 2018

What is a Fertility Coach and how can they help me?

The work I do is all about talking through where you are struggling, helping you create a plan, and then supporting you on the actions you take.
January 5, 2018

Is Infertility making you lose friends

Infertility can leave you feeling isolated and like no one understands how you feel.
November 4, 2017

Interview with Susan Seenan

Hear information and advice from the Chief Executive of the biggest Fertility Charity in the UK.
November 3, 2017

Interview with Kelly da Silva

A real life story of someone who has created an amazing support system following her personal experience.
November 2, 2017

Sarah Banks – Managing fertility treatment in the workplace

Advice for juggling fertility treatment and work.